Warning: P.D.A.
Yuck. Public Displays of Affection used to bother me so much.
In my last serious relationship, we would never ever do anything in public except hold hands.
I was just never a fan of PDA.
I always felt so extremely uncomfortable.
-FAST FORWARD-
When I started getting more serious with Scott, I began to notice that he was a big fan of PDA.
He would never hesitate to hug & kiss me in public and I secretly hated it.
Of course, I never told him how I felt... but I think he started to notice how uncomfortable I was.
He thought it was hilarious after I mustered up the guts to tell him.
After that, it was as if it was his only goal in life to kiss me more in public just to watch me squirm.
I remember one specific time we were standing in front of the Rockefeller Christmas Tree in the middle of a mob of people. He grabbed my face and started to kiss me... as I was pulling away, he smiled and shook his head "no". He made it his personal goal to get me over my strange fear of PDA.
I feared PDA so much that when I was a teenager,
I would often have anxiety just thinking about my wedding day,
and having to kiss my new husband in front of hundreds of people.
Yes. It was THAT bad.
Weird, I know.
-FAST FORWARD-
I can honestly say that I am FINALLY over my strange fear! (Thank you, Scott)
PDA by other people still grosses me out, but if I kiss Scott in public, in no longer bothers me.
& it's not even just PDA --- it's also the fact that I no longer obsess over what people think about me in general.
When you find a person like that who can help you get over a fear,
without judging you for having it in the first place... marry them.
People like that are few and far between.
I love this Karla! I also had a fear of PDA and still in some ways catch myself trying to go around kissing in public when Travis "attempts" to.
ReplyDeleteTravis is a big fan of PDA and I had to fess up to him as well.
Your not alone sister. :)
Good lord, woman. I'm all about this post. First, I totally get ya. I am all about holding hands, but long kisses are "too much" for me. E and I will peck every now and then, but I freak if it's longer then like, 2 seconds. You are a total step ahead of me right now with being "accepting" about it. But you are SO RIGHT! When you stop caring what other's think, then you become okay with it. I'm almost there, hopefully someday like you :) Ps, you two are adorable.
ReplyDeletehaha this is great!
ReplyDeleteAh! I love it! I'm the same way! My fiance is a very affectionate person and I am less than affectionate.
ReplyDeleteI'm with you on this one! Holding hands or putting your arms around one another is great but long passionate kisses are too much for me! My husband is just the opposite. What's with all these mushy guys?!?
ReplyDeleteSo, after reading your post and the comments above, maybe I'm alone here in that I'm the more affectionate one and my husband is NOT! Haha. Love that he was able to help you get past your fear, though. So heartwarming!
ReplyDeletexoxo,
Brianna
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